Happy Dancing at the Keyboard Biologist

Janine

I have to say that my happy dance tends to be just that - boogieing around the kitchen to a happy tune playing on my iPod ( I have also been known to do the same in the staff room at school - much to the amusement/bemusement of my collegues) Failing that if I ever need cheering up it is straight down the beach for me, rain or shine there is something peaceful and uplifting about being by the water.

Lyn

We don't actually go out much, so my happy place is usually an inner place, when I'm meditating at yoga or at spinning. That's my happy place.

Laurie

What do I do as a happy dance?  It would probably have to be opening up a fun (or great) bottle of wine from the wine cellar.  Something I've been looking forward to drinking, or something that I've had for a while so that
it would age appropriately.  Then the happydance moment arrives.  And the bottle is opened!

Dave

My favourite happy dancing is going to a local pub where they have wonderfully cold beer and the BEST fish & chips I have ever eaten.  And it's only two blocks away so I can more than one beer.

Mandy

My ultimate happy dance is to eat sushi and drink a martini at Taki in my hometown with my girlfriend, and then to return home to cuddle on the couch and play with our cats!

Shelly

For my husband and I it would have to be Houstons (Winter Park, FL).  It’s on a lake.  The best thing is to sit on the “back porch” in Adirondack chairs with their fabulous artichoke dip (served in a pumpernickel bread bowl) with the beverage of your choosing (usually Coke for dh and Sprite for me-with a cherry or 2).  You can sit and watch water skiers and the sunset.  Doesn’t get much happier than that!  Makes me smile to think of it!

Katherine

At our house, we get happy by going down to the quiet, cool, basement couch.  We all snuggle together under a blanket ('we' consists of  4yo Alexander, 6yo Matthew, Mom, and Dad) and play DVDs of the old Looney Tunes cartoons especially Bugs Bunny.  ("Of course you realize this means WAR...")  We always end with "The Rabbit of Seville" and sing it for days afterward. ("Therrrre, you're nice and cleeeeean, although your face looks like it might have gone through a machine.")

Helena

My personal happy dance is gathering up all of my closest friends and going to our local bowling alley for drinks and karaoke.  The best part of the night is when my best guy friend and I get up there at the end and sing "Wanted Dead or Alive" by Bon Jovi.  That song has special meaning to us and has come to be known as our song.  Sounds cheesy I know, but just having everyone all together, laughing, being silly and having a good time is one of the best feelings in the world for me.

Lisa

Our version of the happy dance is to grab dinner and complimentary margaritas at our local AUTHENTIC Mexican Restaurant here in PA. (north of philly)........THE BEST Mexican food I've ever had (we've even been to the southwest --and NOTHING beats it!)

Ann

The best happy dance involves cheesy pop music turned way up, with girlfriends, giggles and fruity drinks.

Jenipurr

The first - the dinner part - involves going to our favorite Indian restaurant, a little place called Katmandu, where we split an order of salmon tandoori with extra onions, a huge basket of naan, and a bowl of gulab jaman (and I am pretty darn sure I mangled the spelling on all of those).   The second, where it's just me, is when I get out my Abba Gold CD, turn it on to top volume, and then sing along at the top of my lungs. Because it is impossible to be anything but happy when you're bopping along to Dancing Queen.

Stacy

My happy place is (this will sound mushy and pathetic) in the arms of my hubby - when I hear something to be happy about, or feel happy about something, that is the first place I run for a big hug!!!

Rae

My preferred way of celebrating is a bit more literally a happy dance than most. I skip. I skip for days, with a big goofy grin on my face!
However if it's a pick me up that's needed, then I go where everybody knows my name... my old job. I used to work for a bunch of free spirited hippies building stuff. If I ever need to feel better they know just what to say, plus their break room is stuffed with mismatched, but super comfortable, ugly chairs.

Stacey

When something good happens, or I just feel like a pick-me-up, the place I run to is called "Ronnies". They do ice cream (homemade) and fried foods - perfect for feeling happy!!!

Erin

Sushi ! We head out for sushi or buy a new Arabic dance CD (a real treat for a belly dancer)!

Erin

My happy dance is a vanilla beer and cream cheese pretzel at the local brewery Carlyle Brewery, rockford, IL

Julie

Somehow when we have survived some particularly stressful ordeal, my husband and I wind up at our favorite sushi restaurant and we just order whatever we want, without each secretly worrying that the other will think we're being too extravagant. We've never discussed it, but I think that's what's going on. It is even better because it is often in the middle of the day, so we're blowing off work as well.

Carole

So, when I’m feeling happy, I dance to “Moon River” with my husband.  When I’m feeling sad and need to cheer up, I also dance to “Moon River” with my husband.  It was our song from the beginning of our romance.  We danced to it at our wedding and we danced to it on every anniversary.  And a lot of times throughout the year, too.  That’s my happy dance – it really is a DANCE.

Tam

I have no class so feel free to laugh, it won't hurt my feelings.  The ultimate food to me is CRAB LEGS, but being in the Midwest, the quality of seafood varies wildly and it does NOT adhere to the "you get what you pay for" addage.  Since they seem to be the ones in the Midwest who get it right, the standard celebratory event around our house is a trip to Red Lobster.  At least in my town, their food is 100% consistently good.  Their iced tea is good (hey I'm a midwesterner, tea is vital) and their service is the best in town.  Even the very few "ritzy" (i.e. expensive as heck) places we have around here do not have good service.  There is nothing that puts a damper on a celebration like going to a restaurant and paying a lot of money and getting so-so food and lackluster service.  I go where I know I'll get exactly what I like, exactly how I like it.  I know it will be cheerfully served and my glass will never go empty.  I've even got the kids hooked on it.  Every birthday, congratulations, going-away, Mother's Day, Valentine's Day party is at Red Lobster.  For hubby's events (father's day, birthday) we go somewhere else because he's usually sick of Red Lobster by then. 

Red Lobster has defined "happy dance" to me since I was a kid.  I grew up in a very small town and my parents had a modest income.  To go "into town" to a "fancy" place like Red Lobster was A BIG DEAL.  It still feels like a big deal to me now even though I can afford to do it more often and I know it is not the swank place I used to think it was. 

They also have this amazing white chocolate cheesecake.  MMMMMMMMMMMMM. 

Ashley

I have a happy dance specifically reserved for yarn-in-the-mail days. I scoop everything up out of its packaging and dance (like a drunken flamingo) around my kitchen, (it has awesome floors for dancing) singing at the top of my lungs (usually
showtunes).

This always gets my dog's attention, so he will bound up and huff and holler and jump, and just generally do a little dance himself.  I guess it's all in the spirit of thanking the yarn and postal service gods who bring me smiles.

Hillary

I'd love to be able to say that my happy dance is something really fabulous but it's not. Most of our happy dancing involves my daughter's achievements and they require Outback as celebration. The best I can do is to have a Margarita or a glass of White Zin with dinner.

Jan

Well, sometimes I actually dance around (my husband thinks that is hilarious!).

But usually, I celebrate by getting ice cream -- lately, peach shakes -- yum!

If it is between December and April (the best ice cream place is closed then), dinner out is always good!

Eleanor

My happy dance-- as in what brightens my day; what I do when I really need to feel happy-- is a bowl of my homemade pasta alfredo, a cold grapefruit Izze (fruit juice/sparkling water soda), and a big chocolate bar with toffee and almonds. (Calories and other things bedamned!) And maybe a good movie or TV show.

Deb

Well, you know I'm pretty low-key about this kind of thing, so my favorite means of celebrating is pretty simple. A good meal, with something sweet and gooey for dessert. (Or, heck, skip the meal and go right to the dessert!)

With, of course, my family--and Chappy!

Lisa

Well am I ever glad we don't have to submit a video to enter. Now that would be embarassing. My happy dancing is downright mortifying. I usually do the ooh ooh ooh with the one armed fist movement. Yell woo hoo a few times. I might be know to do a mini "Twist" manuever, but I won't fess up to it ever again. I also use random dumb words like, Yippee Skipee, Rock On, Zip-a-dee-do-da, Oh, yeah, it's your birthday, Yahooie, oh I could go on and on. And just in case you wondered, I REALLY can't dance. Oh well, thankfully only my family sees my happy dances, and I am POSITIVE they aren't telling anyone!

Devorah

If the happy dance is due to one of the kids "doing good," the kid in question gets to choose dinner for either that night or a coming
night.  Sometimes Ben and Jerrys is involved.

The adults tend to "treat" themselves to something, like yarn for me and computer or bike stuff for Mike.

Rachel

so my husband and I live aboard our 50 foot boat in Seattlemuch of the time we live very similarly to everyone else, getting up too early and going to work, coming home later than we would like, puttering about on home improvements or hobbies, cooking and cleaning, etc.  but when we want or need a happy dance, we fire up the old engines, unplug, untie and head out onto the lake.  just cruising by ourselves is enough to make a happy dance- I love being able to get away to fresh perspectives and the unmatched feeling of being separate from the mundane world on land.  not to mention being able to go anywhere with the espresso machine, bar, pets, fiber room, and dvd collection still at my fingers.  really the only way for me to turn up the joy in this happy dance is to take friends along.  I love hostessing, especially if I can share the distinct mentality of the happy dance.  watching folks oooh and ahhh when they pass under drawbridges or see a bald eagle dive for a fish (which still happens even if they have seen these things before) while offering them a fresh drink or nosh is the ultimate sharing!  we most often do this kind of hosting for dinner cruises, but if we can stretch it out to include swimming in the lake (our lakes union and washington reach the mid-70s water temp in the high summer) or anchoring overnight that is even better.  if we go through the locks to the saltwater there are even more wild things to see, like the phosphorescing algae in the water.  at night every movement in the fecund salt water is lit up with ghostly green tracers- the fish feeding at the surface, the hull rolling through a wake, everything.

I could go on and on, but it is the happy dance, and I do it as often as I can and daydream about it the rest of the time.

Kris

At one time, my own happy dancing occurred pretty much only at time of project completion.  Recently I was able to happy dance again after receiving good news from the doc: that my biopsies from the colposcopy (cervical) were BENIGN!  (I had cervical cancer 14 years ago, and this was the first bad pap since then, so quite nerve racking.)

My happy dance resembles the Johnny Bravo dance, from the cartoon of the same name, with arms outstretched in front, pumping up and down, with rear end wiggling A LOT and head thrown back, screaming WAHOO!!!!

Christina

My happy dance is actually dancing.  Dancing a lot. Like an idiot. Singing at the top of my lungs. There’s probably some bootyshaking involved. 

And then I have a drink or two.

Kimberly

My happy place, oddly enough, is called Taco Temple, and it's right around the corner from where I live in Morro Bay, CA. It looks like a terrible dive, in the parking lot of a grocery store no less. But the food is "California fusion", as in if you order a premium fish taco (giant sea scallops, wild king salmon, etc.) for $9, you get a plate with a beautiful field greens salad, tomatoes, cheese, heaped on some corn tortillas, topped with the fish which is grilled blackened, with a side of some lightly steamed vegetables (tiny green beans or asparagus, baby potatoes) and a side of their signature mango salsa. They have premium wines but my favorite is to get Piraat Belgian ale, which they have on tap. It's golden and very alcoholic. Now that it's summer there's quite a wait, but off-season we can walk in on a Saturday night. No reservations and cash only, as it seems all good places are.   The other celebration place is the Madonna Inn, in San Luis Obispo (the next town over), CA, which is just... undescribable. But their Gold Rush Steak House is a great place to celebrate any occasion (this is the only place I've called to make reservations where they always ask if you are celebrating a special occasion, and if it's a birthday or anniversary, they tie a balloon to your table with the appropriate message).

Kristie

My Happy Dance is at Disneyland.

When I was a small child growing up in Southern Idaho (YUK), every year for family vacation, me, my 4 siblings & parents,  would all pile into our station wagon & drive to
Disneyland for our family vacation.  Since my dad was a policeman supporting a large family (mom stayed at home to raise us), he had to take on a lot of extra jobs to keep us all clothed, fed, etc.  Obviously with so many extra jobs, we hardly ever saw him... except for when we went to Disneyland.  We got an entire 5 days with dad & he loved the rides as much as we did.

Now that I live close to
Disneyland & I married someone like dad, whenever we need to Happy Dance, it's at Disneyland.  I know it seems silly & childish, but Disneyland holds so many wonderful memories from my childhood, that it seems like a normal place for me to celebrate.

LJ

For some reason it tickles me to make a dinner entirely comprised of hors d'oeuvres. It seems so decadant and celebratory. So an evening of hors d'oeuvres eaten on the couch while watching a DVD and knitting makes me about as happy as a person can be. ;-)

Linda

My everyday happy is to go for a walk through my neighborhood at sunrise for a natural high, or at sunset when the families with kids are out taking the air.

My special event happy place is Sunday brunch at Chez Pierre restaurant in
Tallahassee, an in-town southern estate house converted into a wonderful french restaurant.  Dinners are too expensive for a grad student budget but Sunday Brunch is wonderful.

Beth

My happy-dance spot is Dali Restaurant in Somerville, MA. Any time we ahve somethign to celebrate (birthday, anniversary, promotion, visit from an old friend...) we go there for garlic shrimp and sangria. Can't be beat.

Anne

My happy dance these days is having a really good giggle-fest with my three-year-old, who has this amazingly infectious giggle!  And it's easy to get him going, too!

Suzy

my favorite way to happy dance is to 'wag my tail'  usually wile hugging my grandma.

cabby, my boy beagle's favorite way to happy dance is to lay down (usually while waiting for dinner) and stomp his front feet and scoot backwards at the same time, it's really cute when he hits the wall and turns around like somebody poked him 'cause he's surprised it's there

Jannett

Well, I don't have any particular place that I go but I do have a "happy dance". I call it my snoopy happy dance. Do you remember that silly little dance Snoopy did every time he was happy? Y'know the one where his feet would rock up and down very quickly and he would spin around and around?   Yep, that would be me. My snoopy dance involves me "hopping" from foot to foot and bobbing my arms up and down while I say "it's time to Snoopy dance!".   Fortunately, everyone that knows me has become quite accustomed to this. Anyone else would probably call the men in the white suits on me, but, I try to keep a friend around at moments like this!

Adrianna

My favourite way to celebrate something is actually to dance! Dancing has always been a huge part of my life, I've been taking lessons since I was a kid, and anytime I hear music it just makes me drop everything (even knitting) and start to dance. My favourite thing to do when I am in an especially good mood is to put on the Strictly Ballroom soundtrack and dance around my living room. I know all the words and I
even have some set choreography for certain parts of it. My boyfriend loves to watch me dance which makes me feel even better!

Kristen

I definitely agree that a really good meal at a nice restaurant is a great happy dance.  But I'd have to add a post-meal walk along the coast - I moved to the Massachusetts North Shore last year, and I love being close to the water.  Even in winter!

Kristi

I put on one of my upbeat CDs and dance around the kitchen, sometimes with total silly abandon, LOL!

Stacie

I haven't been teaching freshman composition/writing courses for awhile, but I used to do this all the timel, esp. right after finishing up grading the last paper, final revisions, and calculating final grades for 40 students for the fall semester--that means grading 80+ papers while writing my own seminar papers in course of 2-3 weeks in December.  Before leaving to turn in grades, I'd cue up Handel's Halleluiah Chorus on my CD player at full volume, leaving it on pause so I could just hit the remote when I walked in the apartment on my return!

Heatherly

Carolyn

My happy dance is drinking a Budweiser, or 6, and blasting good rock and roll on the stereo and sing on the top of my lungs and dance, dance, dance. good songs are crazy train by Ozzy, party all night long, Kiss, or any other sort of good stuff, or, possibly I  saw her standing there by...the Beatles....good stuff...

Nina

I may raise my glass in acknowledgement or ask my middle son, the originator of the broccoli dance, for a few steps.  He began this when he was quite small and we continue to remind him of it since it is so cute.

Deanne

caesar salad, a carona and a margharita pizza at Spin! — my husband  and my favorite happy hang out spot.

Claudia

Squealing and jumping up and down --- alone, only.

Maria

When we have something to celebrate, DH, our son and I go out to one of our favorite restaurants - usually for lobster.

My "personal" happy dance is usually much simpler. An iced coffee and a trip to my LYS or Barnes & Noble, or a little window shopping at the mall. With all the day-to-day stuff, it's sometimes nice to have a little "alone time."

Christine

Usually when something good happens to my boyfriend and I it can be immediately celebrated by a high 5.   Other happy dancing in college included facials and dancing around (sometimes on furniture).  And it never hurts the celebration to have a chocolate martini by your side :).  There are so many varities of happy dancing in my life  I just included a few.

Susan

In college (southern Maryland - St. Mary's College) my happy dance involved driving myself, some french bread, a tub of hummus, a wedge of brie, some grapes, and a friend to the most incredible state park - Point Lookout - to sit with our doors flung open (or our windows rolled down) our seats pushed as far back as they could be, and munch.  Feet up on the dashboard, stories exchanged, the sound of the waves and the salt snap of the air never failed to either make us happy or increase our happiness.......

 Now that I've left southern Maryland and have instead moved across the water to the Eastern Shore of Maryland it's a bit of a drive to the beach - and the closest beach is unfortunately populated w/ frat boys and flip-flops and far too many empty beer cans.  So now my happy dance is (believe it or not) Panera Bread.  The day I first dropped my son off at daycare and could barely see to drive through the tears?  Paneras.  The luxurious mornings I get to myself with a HUGE cup of coffee and some incredible new sock yarn?  Paneras.  If I'm sad about something I tend to walk away feeling at least calm and peaceful, if not cheerful - - and if I'm already happy then it just amps up the joy and I walk out feeling absolutely weightless.

(which is hysterical, considering that I've probably put on a good 10 pounds since they came to town thanks to their unending cups of coffee - which I doctor w/ loads of half and half! - and orange scones.....)

Devri

Like you, my happy celebrations are tied up in food - either a superb prime steak dinner, or an evening cooking my favorite dessert at home.  Accompanied by a bottle of good red wine!   Currently I'm living in Seattle (though I've ranged across the US from east coast to west in the last 7 years) and so I've got good steak (at the Waterfront Grill) and fantastic places to shop for food/cooking supplies (City Kitchens, Pike Place Market) right at hand.

Gabrielle

These days I'm bedridden as often as not, due to lupus. My happiest times are when the whole family piles into bed with me for snuggles, giggles, stories, and lots of love. Bonus points for when the cats brave my DH's glowering looks to join us. I can't go out into the sun anymore without making myself sick, but my family brings it to me in their smiles.

Lee-Fay

... when happy (and it doesn't take much) I jump up and down in glee and add a bit of flat hand clapping. Not cupped hands held at an angle to each other like when you applaud at a concert, but palms and fingers straight clapped parallel, the way small children clap. Turning in a circle while jumping indicates extra happiness. This habit breaks out not just at home, but in the office (if some statistical analysis goes particularly well), at the shops (e.g. when I think of something I'm going to cook) or in the street (just about anything can set it off). The happy dance is easily shared by grabbing the hand of the nearest person - they usually feel compelled to at least jiggle up and down to keep in eye contact. And dancing multiplies the happiness.

Karen

My favorite way of happy dancing is calling my friend Monika and rehashing the whole thing with her. Sharing makes good things double and bad things half.

Abi

My celebrations seem to involve going out for a meal (or staying in for a special one, I suppose) or going to the cinema if I am a bit stressed out.

When I was in a previous, unhappy job, we went through a phase of going to a nepalese restaurant every sunday night so I had something to look forward to, rather than spending sunday evening worrying about the working week.

Carla

When we lived in Madison WI our happy dance was always a trip to Ella's Deli (http://www.ellas-deli.com/). Even before we had children (this place is heaven for kids between the animatronic displays, table toys, and carousel) Since we moved to NY we have yet to find a good happy dance destination (how sad is that!) It could be that since we've been in NY, there hasn't been much happy dancing. Though I'm literally dying for something worthy to happen, so that I can take Richard to The Moosewood in Ithaca (http://www.moosewoodrestaurant.com/). I've been there with friends before (how exciting after using their cookbooks all these years).

Loredena

My favorite ‘happy dance’ is to go with my husband and friends to a local Thai Restaurant.  Currently it is Lovely Thai in Grayslake.   Some chicken satay, rama chicken, and a few thai iced teas accompanied by lots of friendly chatter is a perfect day brightener for me      I was first hooked on thai food while working my first coop job in college about 20 years ago and it’s been a favorite ever since!

Teresa

Two pump vanilla low-fat Starbucks latte - even better if I can sit at
the Starbucks and knit for at least 1 hour.

What can I say? I'm low maintenance and low budget...these days this
is the ultimate treat!

Meleah

My favorite place for happy dancing is Chino Latino in Minneapolis. We
like to go there for happy hour- lots of happiness then, because I can
rationalize drinking an expensive happy drink, like a well-done to my
tastes blackberry mojito martini, or a mojito, with poblano queso
fundido, and spicy tuna sushi. Yum! The food is available in 1,2,3,4,
dollar amounts, depending on your choices.

We had a happy dance time last week, and unexpectedly saw Wicked!
after happy hour, and celebrated my passing of a big licensing test,
the Marriage and Family therapy regulatory boards national exam. Yay!

Imaginary Daughter

the steam room after exercising, followed by a cool shower. works every time.

Kristin

I just moved to Boston, so I don't have a happy dance here yet.  My favorite one is still in Hawaii - there was this beach on O'ahu that wasn't well known at all, fairly obscure entrance in a residential area.  A friend of mine took me there when my parents were getting divorced, and I continued to go there when I was sad and needed cheering up, or when I was happy and wanted to enjoy it.  Just sitting there and watching the waves could keep me occupied for hours, and had such a calming effect.  My husband ended up proposing there.

Tar gzip

When I am happy, my favourite way of happy dancing is singing out loud in the street. Really! When people have already left their jobs and went home to have dinner (from 21.00 to 23.00, more or less) the streets in my city are not yet dangerous but are almost deserted. Then it is a great time to go walking on the street and singing out loud. A lot of times I do it!

Jennifer

I like to jump up and down and holler when I happy dance!  My husband shakes his butt when he happy dances.  LOL

Shirley

I love to literally dance.  I put a jazz CD on and dance around the  living room.  Sometimes I grab a bit of chocolate to share (enhance)  the happy feeling, and sometimes I pick up my little white dog and  dance around with him in my arms.  Music and movement add to my joy.

Leanne

Around here, all victories are shared.  When my husband, myself or our 3 year old son succeed in any way ("Look! A new Doctor Who DVD to rent!") I call out for the "woohoo". "Kieran, can I get a woohoo?" "Woohoo!" he replies without hesitation.  It sounds more liek "wuh-Hoo!" with the sound ascending on the second syllable.  It never fails to fill my heart with happiness. 

That's our little happy dance.

You can watch a video of it here:
http://momcast.blogspot.com/2006/07/happy-dancing.html

Ginny

As for my happy dance… well, my very most favourite thing to do to celebrate is first head to the LCBO (our liquor and wine store) and pick up a bottle of anything sweet and sparkling.  A bright Chardonnay if they have one, but if not, a vodka cooler works well too :-)  I then proceed to the Chinese restaurant here in town, order up some General Tao's chicken and haul the goodies home.  Once there, I pop in "Moulin Rouge", tear into the Chinese and sip away at my choice beverage.  As soon as I'm done eating (and the tears from the movie are flowing well) I whip out a knitting project that's made with luxurious fibres, like silk or cashmere, and I knit and weep till the end of the film.

Amanda

I've spent over a week trying to figure out what our happy dance is, or to come up with a new one.  We have moved around so much lately that just one place wouldn't work and that's when it hit me...  When we celebrate we do something new each time.  That's our celebration.  We think of something we haven't done before, someplace we haven't been, all four of us, and we do it.

Danielle

There are many things that I do as my "happy dance", depending on the situation.   One reliable happy dance venue is our local Indian restaurant. Yum! And, the staff is friendly, efficient, and knowledgeable. A thoroughly enjoyable experience all around.   Another treat, when I have the time, is to sleep in late on a weekend morning. I love to wake up to the bright sunshine slipping through the cracks around the blinds, and laze about in bed for several extra minutes.   One of my favorite happy moments -- and my husband knows this and uses it to his advantage! -- is to spend a warm day in town (i.e. Boston) and see people out walking with their babies, little children, and dogs, and to dream about the future.

Stacy

My favorite way to happy dance is to go to the beach at Birch Bay...It is only about 20 minutes from where we live and you can find rocks or sand depending on how far north you go. The rocky part is great for looking for agates, and of course, the sandy part is perfect for building sand castles with the girls. It makes me want tohappy dance just thinking how fortunate I am living here!

Sandra

when I'm really happy, I jump around and laugh and sing - any song that goes around in my head right at that moment. When someone I like is around, I hug them. Or I hug my cat, which he doesn't like too much, unfortunately.

Sarah

Anyway, my happy dance...I'm so thrilled that you even used that expression. Growing up my little brother would sometimes do this uncoordinated flaying of arms and legs when the family was walking down the street together, we called it his happy dance, and still joke about it to this day. Thought it was just a geeky family expression, now that he is a grown man of 6'4" he grumbles when we remind him of it.   Okay now for real my happy dance: any beach, anywhere. Simple, to make up for my yammering on before!

Melissa

'Round here we have Tony's Meats and Deli (not to mention their Wine Shop) so while there are some great steakhouses in the metro area I also have a husband who is an excellent grillmaster--I am in charge of sides and dessert.  Our happy dances occur at home with family and possibly friends accompanied by candlelight (citronella if we're outside) and music.  In this way the evening doesn't need to end for the trip home or to allow someone else a chance at the table, the company and the food are great, and doing the dishes just reminds you of what a great time was had.  Various friends have introduced us to different aspects of dining well (or vices if you will) and we celebrate/remember them also.  It doesn't take much--Friday, Sunday, a break in the heat of summer, a half-birthday, a full birthday, solstice, return from camping, first/last day of school . . . you name it.

Susanne

Nothing makes me happier than new yarn and who doesn’t need a reason to buy new yarn.  I celebrate by going to my favourite LYS and taking a nice leisurely browse through the store and chatting with the owner.  Imagining all sorts of projects, (like I need a new one) I then purchase enough yarn for something particular! It just prolongs my “happy dance” for hours and hours. 

Ania

It has been a while, but my happy dance includes piling up pillows in bed, making a cup of exquisite coffee, and reading a book from start to finish, preferably something funny or wonderfully written such as Anne Tyler, Elizabeth Berg, or Laurie Colwin. Oh, and some dark chocolate.

Kendall

My happy dance is best done with margaritas in a yarn shop and a few good friends.  Can't think of anything better as a celebration! 

Freyalynn

And when I feel the need for a happy dance, it involves lots of legs!  The nine-month old Labrador cross puppy bounces up and down and squeaks loudly at me, the ancient GSD unbalances and sits down suddenly, waving her ears at me, the two young cats stand up on their back legs and try and reach my clapping hands with their mits (claws *usually* in), and the senior cat sits back and observes with an air of scientific interest.  In the middle of all this I am hopping from foot to foot and clapping my hands in the air, going "wheeeeee!" loudly.  The husband tends not to be demonstrative enough to join in, but there's more than enough legs without him.

Adrienne

my hubby and i like to happy dance at a french-tahitian restaurant named papillonbeautiful orchids decorate the rooms year round.  the ambience is great, the service is wonderful, and the food (especially the desserts) is the best!

Tasha

My older daughter and I have 2 happy dances we love to do.  One is "the barbarellie" from Play with Me Sesame.  Grover says "Arms out, arms out, shake your little belly.  Arms up, arms up, dance around like jelly.  Spin like CinderellyDooooo the barbarellie!"  This induces hysterics in a two year old.  The best one we do is what I call the maniac.  We do the foot motion to "Maniac" from "Flashdance," that really fast right/left/stomping/running in place motion.  The arms usually end up looking like we're jogging.  The only caveat is to make sure you don't get too dizzy because maniac-ing must be done in circles.

Megan

Silly as it may look, it feels great to hoist whatever you're happy about either literally (i.e. a FO) or figuratively (by just throwing arms in the air) and hop from foot to foot while chanting "Yay!" in a most undignified manner.

Lisa

When DH and I need a happy fix, we order pizza delivery from the local pizza house, Charlies Pizza. They've been open for at least 25 years and still make their pies just the same as they did back then. Since we both work and he's gone from home about 14 hours a day, just curling up on the couch together with our puppy and watching TV with our pizza makes the rest of the world and it's problems drift away. It's like going on a date, but much more comfortable, and we can do it on the spur of the moment. That's our happy dance.

Brenda

Theresa, my favourite way of celebrating is to spend a weekend at our beach house - it's an hour's drive north of the city and a lovely spot.

Yenju

Once upon a time, during the Ph.D., before the husband, before the two kids, I'd say my happy place would be a restaurant in Eugene Oregon called Hilda's. This place was the great. With our stipend of $12K, we'd always try to go there if we invited a speaker -- or just as a special treat. They've now closed and I no longer live in Oregon, but hey, that was my happy place.

I guess I've got to pick a new happy dance...probably the local ice cream shop Tuckers -- and well, their slogan is 'eat dessert first'.

Pat

My favorite kind of happy dance is to walk on our favorite beach (Higgins Beach, Scarborough, ME, which is 300 miles away) and then go for a really nice dinner at a local (to the beach) restaurant with a nice bottle of wine.  It might not be the most exciting thing to do but it really makes me feel good and is so inspiring for ideas of color combinations and projects.  It is our Happy Place (Safe Place).

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