Thanks to all the helpful comments I received yesterday, Audrey and I were able to start to work out our differences. Using Becky's suggestion that I divide the lace units proportionally over the various parts of the sweater, I was able to get things matched up where they needed to be.

The jury is still out on the seaming, which is why there are no closeups yet. And there are no modeling shots because I decided to try to block the lace a little bit -- when I tried it on, I found the lace rolled in an unflattering manner. So we'll be in therapy for a week or so longer...
Why a week? Well, I've got to take a little business trip that's going to take me away from my usual computer keyboard for all of next week. I wish I could bring Audrey, but my luggage room is limited. I'll be taking a couple of lace scarf projects to work on since they should be small and easy to work on as well as light weight.
I'm hoping that I will have some internet connectivity, but it is still hard for me to predict right now.
Where am I going? Well, in the spirit of Carmen Sandiego, I'm not going to say. But I will be taking my camera and if I can get to an internet connection I'll be posting photos (if not, I'll post photos when I get back). To whomever can guess the most locations will go a fabulous prize. Well, okay, not like Oprah giving away cars fabulous, but definitely something nice.
P.S. I know there are some people out there who already have some clues about what direction I am travelling in. You can play along, too, but I might require more specific answers...

Oooh!!! Audrey looks beautiful. Congratulations. I hope to actually finish a sweater for myself one of these days.
Hope you have a great trip.
P.S. Where did you get your blocking board?
Hi ! Your Blue Audrey looks great ! It should be look great on you.
Pretty, pretty sweater.
First off...I love butterfly and the colorway is fantastic. I am definately going to make her when I'm finished the few projects I have going on! Audrey is looking great. :-)
I have to admit that blocking a sweater on one of those fancy blocking boards looks so....AUTHORITATIVE. Audrey is going to be perfect....xox Kay
Oooooh! Audrey is gorgeous, daaaahlink!