January 4, 2006

Resolutions

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New Year's Resolutions always makes me think. Do I or don't I? Every year I come down somewhere different on these. The reality is, while I always have a lot of good intentions, I'm not always very good at sticking to them. The relatively silent elliptical machine in our basement is testimony to that. Most of the time, I have to have a meaningful motivator to keep me on track.

So, perhaps, rather than make resolutions, I'll talk about a few things that I would like to accomplish -- or, at least think about more -- and why these things are important to me.

On the fibery side of things...

I would like to knit a pair of socks for each of the family members who was with me during my trip to the hospital. I've got a great stash of sock yarn and there's nothing quite like knowing that something I made is keeping someone special's feet warm. I already have a pair started for John -- which I am going to work on exclusively once I get my first Jaywalker sock finished -- and the most fabulous maize and blue Lorna's Laces Shepherd Sock yarn for my dad, the U of M fan. That should be good to get me started. Then I'll work on figuring out what I am going to do for my mom, brother and sister-in-law. No real time table for this. It's not a race, just something that would make me happy.

I also want to spend more time with my spinning wheel. I have so much lovely fiber now and spinning always makes me feel so peaceful. I was kind of surprised when I discovered how meditative spinning can be. So spinning would be good for the stash and for my peace of mind.

I want to focus on knitting things out of my stash. I think I may be approaching the point where I have too much of a good thing. It all calls to me and I find it hard to stay focused on any one thing for long. I've been good and I've bought relatively little new yarn this year since Maryland. I plan to keep to my stash diet for a bit longer. My next two projects (aside from the abovementioned socks) will be the scarf for my aunt and the double knit scarf for John. And then I need to think about something bigger. I've definitely been getting the urge to do a little felting, lately.

On the personal side of things...

I want to improve my diet and be more careful about what I eat. John and I worked hard to lose a bunch of weight, but I've been getting a little sloppy with my eating habits. We're both beginning to get unhappy about the way some of our favorite clothes fit again! To get started, I want to drink more water and cut out most of the caffeine and alcohol so that the water can do it's work better. And I want to be more reserved about what I eat. My metabolism isn't getting any faster these days...

I want to read more. I used to read all the time and I felt in touch with the world. Lately, there haven't been many books in my life. It's almost like I can feel my vocabulary shrinking...

I'd like to find some volunteer work that I enjoy and that is meaningful for me. I think this means some homework on my part to understand the what's out there and what I might fit best with. There was a time in my life when I would have said that I wanted to do this to get to meet people, but lately I've had this feeling that it would be nice to do something for my community and give something back. I have a lot of blessings and maybe I need to share some.

Finally, I want to stop multitasking all the time. There's nothing fundamentally wrong with multitasking -- it's a survival skill, in fact, but I do it constantly. I just can't go to a movie and not work on a sock, for instance. I'm always trying to do more than one thing at a time. As a result, I think I miss things that I would have enjoyed more if I had given them all of my attention instead of trying to do too much at once.

Well, there you have it... the things that I've been thinking about as the New Year begins in earnest. It will be interesting to see next December how much progress I've made. I kind of figure if I get one out of each category, I'll be doing pretty well.

janine said:

I'm planning to knit from my stash for a while too. It's either that or we won't be eating for a while:-)

Carole said:

You could offer to volunteer at the local library. You'd be doing something good for the community AND you'd be surrounded by books, which would increase your reading opportunities.

Chris said:

I was going to suggest reading while you knit (or at least listening to books on tape) until I got to the multitask less! :)

Jenn said:

I have seen the "read more" desire on many people's lists (including mine!). It's so easy to loose touch with books - sadly.

Judy said:

YOU hit the nail on the head with the remarks on multi tasking. I have been thinking about this for a long time. It seems that I never even think out one thing at a time, perhaps this is one of the reasons I (we) feel so scattered all the time.

Wanda said:

Your thoughts on resolutions really struck a chord with me, especially the multitasking. That's how I've felt of late. If I'm watching TV or going to see a movie, it seems like I can't not knit and I do feel that I miss out on certain things b/c I am multi-tasking. I actually sat down and read for a bit last night and it was so nice. I've really let reading slip away from me and I do want to do more it. It was always such a habit of mine before knitting took over.

Tanya said:

I decided not to make "resolutions," just to take the time to enjoy the things that bring me pleasure. Something I didn't do enough of in 2005. And one of those things was READING. I, too read less last year, and as a writer, am ashamed. Glad to see someone else is going to get back on the book bandwagon. The one day last year I remember fondly was a Saturday where I sat down and finished a book in one sitting. I want more of those days in 2006.

Judy said:

I was just having the multitasking discussion with my boss. It's something we can learn from children, just to live in the moment and find joy in simple things. I want to try to find that joy more this year, too.

Julie said:

Get spinning! You need to make room for all the new fiber we will be acquiring at MS&W this year :)

Michelle said:

I agree with no resolutions. I instead made some goals and things I would like to accomplish this year. For me, it's more focused instead of, "Oh I am going to go on a diet." That never worked for me in the past. Defining my goals works better.

Vicki said:

A great approach to the new year. Good luck with everything :)

jacqui583 said:

Wow; I could just copy and paste your post, it's so appropriate for me. Well, other than the spinning that is. ;) We get so busy and there's so many things we want to do, that we don't take the time to enjoy them when we do them.

--Deb said:

I don't make resolutions, because they never seem to last more than a week or two. It's convenient to take the changing year as a time for taking stock, though. I just don't do anything as formal as saying "I'm going to lose weight this year," or something like that. But, um, yeah, those holiday cookies . . .

laughingrat said:

Those are really good aspirations. And I agree about the multitasking--I hate to admit it, but as a movie fan, I can tell I just don't get as much out of a film when I try to knit and watch at the same time. Some things need our undivided attention, you know? And that can make it harder to make time for them in our lives, too. Making time for ALL the stuff we love--that's something one has to be mindful about. It's difficult!

eyeleen said:

Good Luck with your goals for the year!

Maus said:

I am definitely with Carol, do check your local library if you can volunteer there. That is how it got this biologist started to be interested in books on a whole new level. Now I work there instead of the lab and I am very happy. Its a very nice environment, in our case often times fast paced, and you can help so many people out on a day to day basis, a very pleasant job.