For anyone who has been following this blog for a while, you already know that I am pretty much the world's worst resolution maker and keeper. I have lots of good intentions, but I tend to be both over optimistic and under-motivated. So instead of making resolutions, I thought I would just dream a little bit and talk about a few of the things I would like to do this year. Some are practical, some are not. But I guess they all relate to who I am as a person this year and what directions I'd like to go in during 2009.
- I'd like to get back in the habit of having regular check-ups with my GP (means I must get one...), my dentist and my gynecologist. It's so easy to let the time fly by on this stuff, but I am beginning to realize, as I get older, that it's also unfair to my family if I don't take care of myself. If I can get regular monthly appointments to have a facial then certainly I can schedule two trips to the dentist and annual visits to see my doctors.
- I'd like to turn my bedroom into the adult retreat that I have always envisioned it would become. John and I are coming up on 8 years in our house and it is time to stop looking at it as a transition home and start treating it as the place I plan to stay. The bedroom is a small step, but a step that I think would add a lot of quality to our lives.
- I'd like to return all the help and space John gave me in the months after becoming a mom by making sure that he gets some time back in his life. Taking over some small chores, doing more of the grocery shopping -- that sort of thing.
- I'd like to get back to going to a regular knitting group. Since having Z, this has been harder than I thought it would be.
- I'd like to spin more often. My wheel has been sidelined most of the year and when I got it out not too long ago and got it back into shape (note to self: rubber bands dry out) it was a real pleasure to work with it. Spinning brings me peace.
You might be surprised not to see any Z-related items in that list. She is so much the focus of life right now (and for good reason) that I don't really think I need to add anything more to my wish list. I work 80% time so that I can have a day with her every week. I enjoy taking her with me to stores with shopping carts -- we both have fun shopping together. I have some projects for her on the needles, and I just made her several nice pairs of socks. When it comes to Z, it's all good, and I suspect that it will only continue to get better and more rewarding as the year goes on.




































