My friend Judy taught me to knit. This happened right after I split up with my then fiance and moved into an apartment of my own. Judy had been knitting since she was in grade school and had a small portfolio of interesting multi-color sweaters to show off. I really never quite understood what place knitting and the fiber arts would start to take in my life, but I definitely appreciated both her help learning something new, her encouragement (my early style was rather unconventional, to say the least) and her companionship while I made the transition out of one image I had had for my life into another.
At that time, I had been getting back into cross stitch after a long hiatus. So, in the spirit of fair play, I introduced Judy to the elements of what I knew how to do. Judy, long a knitter, had also long been a painter, and loved the idea of playing with more color in thread. So I got her some simple things and some embroidery floss to get started.
Flash forward about 13 years to the two of us having lunch at a nice little cafe in Madison. Her second baby (and second boy) is due in October, but it was Judy presenting me and Ms. Z with a gift.
It is a beautiful and sweet and somewhat bittersweet gift in many ways. Any of you who have done counted cross stitch will understand the work in this piece (actual size is roughly 8" x 10"). The wings have gold blending filament in them and the whole piece is worked on an Irish linen. Judy made it before she had children, with the idea that when she did, it would be on the wall in her little girl's room. Since son number two is likely the last child, she wanted it to get the chance to live with another little girl.When I brought it home to Ms. Z (wrapped in tissue and happily ensconced in a bright pink bag), she had the bag out of my hands before I could even tell her I had something special for her. I had to do a little juggling to put down my things and help her take it out gently and unroll the tissue so that she could see. "She has wings! Like a butterfly!" were the first words out of her mouth. She then went on to point out the rabbit and the deer, and was very excited when I told her we were going to hang it in her room.
My next mission is to get it framed so that Ms. Z can enjoy it in her room. I'm hoping this weekend to get out and see if I can find something that I like for it.
Thank you so much, Judy, for sharing something so beautiful with my little girl.




